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I'm sick and tired of reading this question everywhere especially in search engine results. The answer is: THEY DON'T! REALITY CHECK: As a woman who has been harassed by unattractive men who would not take no for an answer I must state for the record that hot girls do not sleep with ugly guys.
If you're a man, reading all these stupid links in search engine results about hotter girls wanting to sleep with you is just fueling delusional fantasies and ultimate disappointment (not to mention causing aggravation for hot girls that you're foolishly pursuing)! I know because I have been in both positions—as the hotter girl who is harassed by much less attractive guys who read too many delusional blog posts and see too many fantasy films catering to male imaginations instead of to male realities.
I've also been the desperate woman pursuing a man who was clearly out of my league until he made it clear that he wasn't interested in me (a humiliating experience that taught me to aim for men who are a little less god-like). The only exception is if some Adonis decides to ask me out—then full speed ahead!
Before I continue let's clarify a few points. By "hot" I mean any girl on a scale of 1–10 ranked higher than you. If you're an unkept, overweight guy and are a 4, a "hot girl" is any girl on the scale of 5–10. Likewise, if you're a reasonably attractive guy who works out every now and then and is a 7 on the scale, a "hot girl" is an 8–10. So the word "ugly" is only relative to your level of hotness.
Additionally, beauty is subjective and people with confident, warm personalities enhance their physical beauty tremendously. So, take these numbers as rough estimates that are an overall score instead of being solely about physical looks. THE FACTS: Studies have shown that no one—neither men nor women—are willing to date someone less attractive than they are.
This is the reality regardless of how you feel about it. Studies also show that on average men tend to be less realistic than women about their attractiveness—often scoring themselves higher than most people would score them.
For both genders someone who is a 7 doesn't want to date anyone less than a 7 and a 4 refuses to date anyone less than a 4. The disconnect occurs when a 4 refuses to consider another 4 or 5 and only wants a 7 or above. This is a common pattern I see with guys pursuing hotter girls—a guy who is a 5 tries to get an 8 to date him. UGLY TACTICS: One cunning strategy that less attractive men employ (which is extremely irritating to women) is to play the "Nice Guy".
The Nice Guy is never rude or mean. He's friendly and does his best to occupy all of the girl's attention. He shows up where she is, becomes her friend, and generally tries to spend as much time with her as possible. The Nice Guy believes that even if the girl only sees him as a platonic friend he will eventually wear down her resistance and make her fall for him or at least sleep with him. But what he doesn't realize is that this tactic only works on men—not women!
From an evolutionary perspective a man loses nothing by having sex (sperm doesn't cost much). A woman has a much higher opportunity cost if she gets pregnant. The Nice Guy is one of the tactics that annoys me the most because nobody likes it when somebody they have no interest in is constantly hanging around them hoping they'll fall in love. Imagine if you're female and a 7. You're no supermodel, but pretty enough to get plenty of attention from men who suddenly all think they have a chance with you unlike the scary, intimidating 9.
But the problem is that all the other average joes think this way too! The principle of not "dating down" still applies, but the 5s, 4s, and even 3s who are not in tune to the reality of their own looks think they have an actual chance with the 7. Ignoring her obvious apathy and disinterest (and in some cases—unequivocal rejection) they harass her by constantly showing up where she is, trying to monopolize her time and attention, and corner her until they think they've worn her down and she'll give up and date them.
Btw, if you're using this tactic—STOP. By doing this you're demonstrating serious narcissism and a deep lack of respect for women. This kind of behavior is sexual harassment and the line of reasoning used by rapists. Remember that there are about 10–20 other guys who are trying to use this same ineffective strategy on her at the same time. The best thing to do is to take a careful, realistic look at yourself. Post a photo from Flickr to online forums and ask strangers how hot they think you are.
Ask your friends for an honest opinion. Get an average of everyone's ratings—that is your number. Then start approaching women closer to your level of attractiveness.
You can aim a little higher too sometimes—looks can be subjective. But stay realistic—if you're a 4, don't relentlessly "Nice Guy" pursue an 8.
You're just going to piss her off and force her to either flee or confront you in a possibly nasty way. Be honest—after you've gotten to know her politely ask her out for coffee or something casual and if she says no you have your answer. If she says yes, then ask her out for dinner next time. If you don't like frequent rejection, then aim for women closer to your "league". But don't turn into the Nice Guy.
He's a sinister misogynist dressed up in cupcakes and cotton candy. He looks harmless but his actions are aggressive and ignores a woman's right to choose who she wants to date. THE ONLY EXCEPTIONS: Now that we've established that people want to date others of a similar level of attractiveness (or better), I'll admit that there are exceptions to this rule.
But don't get too excited because the requirements to become an exception to the rule are steep. Basically, you must have in abundance those attributes that she lacks. You must also be fairly close in age. If you're 65, you may be an 8 among women in their 60s, but it's unlikely that you'll be scored as anything higher than a 1 or 2 by a woman in her twenties.
So hypothetically, you're a 5 who wants to date an 8. You will need: • Money. This is an obvious one. If you are a 5 who wants to date an 8, you will need to have much more money than she does. If she is a millionaire heiress, then you'd better be a billionaire. But if she's a social worker struggling to pay off her college student loans, you won't have to be nearly as rich. • Education. If she didn't finish high school and you're an MD surgeon, an 8 may choose to date you.
Money is usually a factor here too but it's less influential when there's a big gap in your favor for educational attainment. However, if you're very well-educated you might not be willing to date someone who is much less educated—8 or no.
• Social Status: You're descended from royalty (either actual royalty or you come from old money) and have the fancy manners, social connections, and titles to match. An 8 who doesn't have those connections (the majority of them) would think about dating you if those connections are elite enough.
This is why rich royals, celebrities, and rockstar entrepreneurs can date models and each other. • Power: Ah power. So intangible and yet so…powerful. If you're the scion of the head of a major corporation or political dynasty, or you’re an American senator, a member of the House of Lords, or some other powerful political figure, a woman will be willing to forgo a few ranks to acquire some of that power by dating you. All of these attributes in some combination that makes up for what a hot girl lacks will get you the 8, 9, or 10 provided that she thinks it's a worthy trade off.
Men often call women gold diggers but what's really happening is that an ugly guy is pursuing a hotter girl who is many levels higher than him in attractiveness. He thinks he's being exploited but he doesn't see the actual transaction that's taking place—the 8 is giving up 3 ranks to date a 5 because the other attributes that the 5 brings to the table is worth 3 levels of hotness.
This is how the real world works, fellas, and the clearer you get about this the less you waste your youth chasing after rainbows.
Remember, your dating pool decreases too as you get older. Generally, people want to marry those who are similar to themselves. Often a college-educated man from a good school isn't willing to marry a woman who didn’t finish high school. A man who earns 6 figures isn't willing to marry a woman whose salary is in the low 5 figures.
A Victorias Secret model earning $1 million a year wants a guy who looks like a Calvin Klein model earning at least $1 million a year (why do you think American football player Tom Brady is so desperate to keep working as the New England Patriots quaterback?
Its not because he hates retirement—it’s because he needs to match his supermodel wife Gisele in salary and success in order to keep her!) As a 5 unless you have something exceptional to offer why would an 8 want to date you? Likewise, if you're an 8 man, why would you choose a 5 woman unless she offered something exceptional? CASE STUDY: Evan Spiegel, founder of Snapchat, and Miranda Kerr, supermodel. There's a fairly obvious discrepancy in looks between the two.
Appearance-wise I'd rank Evan as about a 6 and Miranda as a 9. However, I think Miranda still did well here because Evan is probably worth more than the 3 rank difference. He's already worth almost $4 billion at 27 years old with a lifetime of financial growth ahead of him. He's about 6'2" tall and is younger than her.
Assuming his net worth doesn't increase a whole lot more this is a good match. But if he gets much wealthier, like Bill Gates or Warren Buffett, we may see them divorce in about 10 years and him marrying a younger woman.
Miranda has anticipated this, so immediately got pregnant after their wedding to secure the marriage or at least be able to claim alimony and child support if the young billionaire changes his mind about her. Welcome to Human Mate Selection 101. For many reasons. There have been similar questions to this before but I’ll go ahead and answer again. • They treat them better. Simply put people who are ‘not pretty’ by societies standards usually know it and as such if they are able to pull someone in way above their ‘pay grade’ so to speak they are far more likely to treat them better.
This goes for both men and women. Some women don’t care if their man looks like a top model they just want them to treat them well and with love and respect. I’ve peoples personalities tend to be a lot worse when they are pretty. This applies to both men and women as well. • They make a lot of money. While looks are important, in todays world money has a lot of influence. Do you think those playboy bunnies are with Hugh Hefner because of his charming personality and good looks?
No. • They are funny. What was it that Marilyn Manroe said “Make a girl laugh and she’ll do anything for you.” I’ve found this to be a particularly true in both personal and professional. I actually asked my wife why she married me or even dated me when I was 5′11 and 136lbs and wore dragon shirts.
She told me it was because I made her laugh and I treated her like a queen. • Personality. Not all women want a rugged and handsome man above all else. Someone just want someone who is going to be there for them when things are going south. I remember talking to a friend of mine years ago who married a man who was NOT easy on the eyes and she told me “Because when I was dating my X who treated me like shit he was always there for me and helped get me back on my feet.
It was at that point it I realized who it was I was supposed to be with.” • Childhood friends. Sometimes they’ve been friends since the early years and that friendship just developed into a romantic relationship. I’m sure there are many other reasons but these are the ones that come to my mind. Let’s say each human being has a hidden quality. Although this is a gross simplification, if this quality was public knowledge people would match and date according to their quality.
High quality would date high quality, why do otherwise? You always want the best quality possible, right? Yes, if there were no costs involved but back to this later. Now let’s see if this quality was not hidden and it was public knowledge what things would go affect it? I would say almost everything. Looks, money, wealth, power, character, interests, family background, education, social statues, potential of future earnings, sexual performance, sex appeal, how you vibe, who se is friends with, how se presents semself, what psychological traits se has, where was se grown up, what experiences se accumulated and many other characteristics.
Because the problem is so complex, it is even possible that this quality measure is not universal. Someone who lives in Vancouver, likes physics, and cares a lot about culture is very attractive to me but it might be very unattractive for a football player in LA. So this quality measure is probably person specific.
Someone who is a 10 for you, might be a 6 for another person and vice versa. Definitely there are some universal traits that are attractive to everyone but they are still in different orders. Some prefer intelligence to warmth while others reverse the order. The truth is we do not observe this quality. Our partner also does not observe our quality.
When a proper quality measure is not available we start to do many things to compensate for that. The simplest thing to do is to find an “objective and measurable” value that definitely matters (let’s say wealth or beauty) and declare it to be THE QUALITY.
Then we claim that everyone should sort themselves according to this measure. Then we start to advertise this and people start to learn it. Then some people will follow and date according to that quality or they may randomly date and match according to that quality.
Then you magnify this result and claim: We have proven that this is THE quality. And everyone who doesn’t do so is weird or dumb or lacks something. This is what happened in our society. We define some “objective” values that we can measure that they are if anything poorly correlated with the actual quality and then we are astonished why do people do not date according to this measure of quality.
There are many other ways to approach this. I like to spend time with other people and try to get to know them and learn about the quality of our match. If someone is cute, yes I like it, but marginally more. As times pass, the picture gets more and more complete and then I can make a decision. The problem with this approach is that many people do not act like this.
So they filter you out if you don’t match some simplistic criteria. It is unfortunate and from time to time I try to develop more of these criteria in myself so I can get more matches, so more opportunity to explore. So I take better care of myself, I try to attend more events, I try to make more money, be more successful, and live a more meaningful life, which not only help me in my dating life but also help me live a better life for myself.
Now if in my journey in life I met a girl who is much less good-looking than I am and I loved her and she loved me back, should I not date her? Should I not settle with her? Well, no. I definitely would. On the other hand if the same happens to me with a much more good-looking girl should she not date me or settle with me? Well, no. So now back to the initial question. If someone’s quality is entirely ser looks then you would never see a looks mismatch in partners.
If looks is a very important part of someone’s quality you would see a strong correlation in people’s looks. If look is not very important but society advertises it to be so, then you see a correlation but you expect to see a lot of matches that are not following this. So my answer to your question is that we are in the third scenario.
Looks do not matter that much in the quality of a relationship but you expect them to be (because of advertisement) and now you’re shocked why this is not the case. P.S. when costs are involved the problem is even harder. Let’s say you know that you are a 10 but there are no 10 s around you. You can wait more years to find a 10 but that’s costly so you might settle for a 6 because that’s the best that you could find.
So with hidden qualities, costly matching, and the fact that looks are not a perfect measure of a match quality you EXPECT a lot of mismatch in any single quality. Everyone who claims the otherwise should prove it to you. Don’t believe them easily. It’s not always about the looks seriously. Your looks deteriorate as you get older and some of us just want someone to be able to trust, depend on, and feel comfortable.
We want someone to share our life stories and possessions. Some other people enjoy brain, compassion, passion, curiosity, adventure, and kindness. The looks won't matter if you fall in love with the personality (seriously).
Other thing hot guys get all the attention and constantly fighting the battle for a guy is not worth it. One more reason is that a “hot guy” is USUALLY (NOT ALL WAYS) a guy that is worried about aesthetics. They enjoy you for your looks and shape, but sometimes I'm sure those girls don't want to worry about that. They would rather have someone to actually care for them and enjoy the time being comfortable with them.
The “ugly guy” also tends to be more charismatic and compliments the way you look even when the girl is a mess. There are many reasons why a “hot girl” would date an “ugly guy”. Ugly doesn't always mean the aesthetics and to some, it is not.
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Found on . 1. Be funny. “Humor is the fastest way to the bedroom, my friend.” — 2. Find a girl with poor eyesight and low standards. “It’s just a matter of finding the right person: poor eyesight and low standards.” — 3. Get a puppy. “Got a puppy.” — 4. Good cologne, good hygiene, and confidence. “Charisma. Shit can’t do anything about my looks. But nice fitting clothes, good cologne, good hygiene, and confidence will go a long way.” — 5.
Be ugly as fuck but funny as shit. “Four sisters, single mum, not a single male cousin and female friends. I’m ugly us fuck but I’m funny as shit and know how to talk to women, been with my partner four years and hopefully many more.” — 6. Have a chubby dick. “Confidence, even if feigned, is extremely valuable in that situation. Also, my dick chubby as fuck.” — 7. It’s called self-confidence and personal hygiene.
“It’s called self-confidence and personal hygiene. It isn’t rocket science.” — 8. Have a massive veiny throbbing…personality. “With my massive veiny throbbing personality.” — 9. Show her your sick dance moves and Kung Fu prowess. “I showed her my sick dance moves and my Kung Fu prowess.” — 10. Be really really really funny. “By being really really really funny. That and a little bit of confidence can go a long way.” — 11.
Become a magician. “Magic. Chicks really dig guys who do magic.” — 12. Get in shape. “I’m pretty sure my face is jacked, so I just went to the gym more. You can’t have a jacked face and a grotesque body.” — 13. Join a band. “Learn an instrument…join a band. Not the easiest of suggestions but it is the one with the most payoff.” — 14. Personality to get one, oral to keep one.
“Personality to get one, oral to keep one.” — 15. Poor eyesight on her part and mad cunnlingus skills on my part. “Poor eyesight on her part and mad cunnlingus skills on my part.” — 16.
Be a funny asshole. “If you’re an asshole to enough potential partners, at some point one of them is going to have issues and be into it. Gotta be a funny asshole though, you can’t just be an asshole.” — 17. Move to China. “I moved to China. Totally worked.” — 18. Have a huge dick. “By having this huge dick of mine.” — 19. Smoke so much weed that they can’t see you through the smoke. “I smoke a LOOOOOOOT of weed. People can’t see me through the smoke.” — 20. Be humble but confident. “Groom yourself.
Dress well—this doesn’t mean suits or expensive attire, just make sure it fits, color matches, etc. Go to a place like Men’s Warehouse for help until you learn how to do so yourself.
Be reasonably fit. Again, you don’t need a six-pack, just make sure you’re not obese. Most women don’t care if a guy has a little pudge. Be stable. This means don’t get smashed every weekend, have a plan for your future, and be consistent. Have interests. It doesn’t matter what they are, passion is attractive. Be open-minded. Don’t be a snob about other people’s passions or likes, which results in being overly critical. Be willing to explore her passions and likes.
Be positive and optimistic. People like to associate and spend time with people who are happy. No one wants to spend time with someone who is always self-deprecating and/or depressed.
Be humble but confident. There are many, many things ‘ugly’ guys can do, but this is a great list to start.” — 21. Keep looking at her. “I just kept looking at her… It actually worked… Idk why she’s with me…” — 22.
Keep positive and practice good hygiene. “I don’t consider myself handsome at all but I have been happily married for 25 years. I think the best thing is just to keep positive and good hygiene. There’s always someone for everyone.” — 23. Go to social events, join clubs, use Tinder and online dating. “Go to social events, join clubs, use Tinder and online dating, etc. While meeting people, you will meet single women and you will click with one of them eventually.
Even if the people you meet aren’t single women, they might be able to introduce you to some. It really doesn’t matter how you look; somewhere out there is somebody who finds your looks sufficient without any change and you just have to find them.” — 24.
Get yourself some swagger. “Ugly guy here who does really well with the ladies. My big moment was realizing if I focus on external validation I’m always going to lose. So I focused inward, built my skills, talents, abilities (including my ability to socialize and talking to women—I just reframed it in my head from ‘oh no these people/women are rejecting me’ to ‘huh.
Guess I should have been more x or y in that interaction, let’s try again with someone else!’) After a year or so I sudden I realized my sense of self-worth had increased so much to the extent where validation from other people seemed to pale in comparison to my own sense of self-worth. And all of a sudden I realized I had swagger. And girls really responded to it.
In a way being ugly made it even better. It’s like they thought ‘this guy’s ugly how on earth is he so confident and relaxed?! What does he know that I don’t?’” — 25. Change the things about your looks that you can control.
“By making myself un-ugly. Mostly ‘ugly’ people are that way because of factors they can control, mine was pepperoni face levels of acne and super oily hair that looked gross if I even skipped one day of showering.
I got tired of using crappy face wash and started seeing a dermatologist, the pill he gave me worked instantly. Got a buzz cut and looked ten times better. As they say ‘the true definition of insanity is doing the same thing twice and expecting different results.’” — 26. Just be yourself. “This is the most cliché in the book, but by being myself.
It took my several years to figure out what that was for me. I am not by any means ugly but I am a little fat, got bald at 19 and I am not very tall (in NL everyone is a fucking giant) so I wasn’t very confident in my teens and early 20’s.
However, the last 3 years or so I found out I am a very positive and optimistic person with a good sense of humor. It’s not that I am swimming in babes but I had my fair share of beauties.
Pure beauty wise I am almost always punching above my league. Having a proper job, degree and manners also helped.” — 27. Just be a good person and good things will happen. “Just refuse to acknowledge looks as something that matters. Just be unapologetically you, be love, be kindness, be compassion.
Just be a good person and good things will happen. Remember that it’s worth waiting for someone who’s able to see through the ephemeral such as looks, and can see into your soul and loves you for that, as well as don’t be so superficial and shallow yourself.
Beauty exists in all forms, and you’re beautiful even if the mushy meat sack you’re encapsulated in doesn’t meet ‘society’s standards of beauty’ I believe in you bud, everything will work out.” — 28. Change things you don’t like about your appearance. “Where you can change or draw attention away from things you don’t like about your appearance. Take a before and after photo so you can feel good about taking control.
This will help you to build a more confident and enjoyable personality to be around. That confidence will also help you to accept the things you can’t change. Here’s my personal examples: I’ve got bad teeth, a flat head, a doughy jaw line, and a crooked nose. Thick glasses draw attention to my eyes and away from my nose. The right haircut and beard give a more aesthetically pleasing look to the shape of my face and head.
Haven’t done anything about the teeth yet but the confidence I’ve gained from unfucking these other traits of mine makes me more confident. I spent time in front of a mirror smiling, as if for a photo, and I’m totally cool with it now.
I accept it and look less like I’m uncomfortable and hiding something when I smile (whether it be naturally or for a photo). Obviously, personality goes a long way as well but being comfortable in your own skin is a very important first step.” — 29. Learn to cook & be self-sufficient. “Groom properly (every day, routine). Buy well-fitting clothes & smart shoes. Get measured by a tailor (hire a tux) and invest in 1 or 2 well-fitting suits (blue, black, grey).
Look after your body. Learn to cook & be self-sufficient. Those are the easy ones. I spent years in retail / hospitality so I have developed good conversation and sales skills, I’m outgoing and good at engaging people, I’m confident and try to be funny (but not too hard). I laugh at myself, I am brutally honest and always open but most importantly I’m secure in myself, I don’t hide behind anything.
I’m not rich but I am fiscally responsible, I’m average looking, I have alopecia on my face so can’t grow a beard or stubble. Obesity and heart disease are common in my family but I’ve definitely done better than someone with my looks should have!” — 30. If you’re interesting, it doesn’t matter what you look like. “Be interesting. Have things to talk about. What people who moan and complain on the internet about not attracting girls seem to universally fail to understand is that looks are only a small piece of the puzzle.
If you’re interesting, it doesn’t matter what you look like. I promise you that.” — 31. Learn how to dance. “I wouldn’t call myself unattractive, but I definitely wouldn’t say I’m particularly attractive either.
On top of that, my social skills aren’t the best. Despite that, most of the girls I’ve dated have been these incredible European dancers (am American) that are basically straight out of a classic heterosexual male fantasy.
Hot accents and everything. The reason I can get away with this is that I learned how to partner dance well. Given three minutes, a good song and a good dance floor, you can make a pretty strong first impression and a pretty strong connection if you know how to lead properly and enjoy yourself.” — 32.
Be hilarious as fuck. “I wouldn’t say I am bridge-troll ugly, but I am by no means better than average. Cameras hate me. Anyway, I was half-drunk after a night of drinking Jager. My buddy was bummed out so I went up to a girl I thought was hot and who would clearly reject me out of hand. And, since it would be publicly, my buddy could then laugh the spectacle and feel better.
We’re married and have a kid now. Also, I am hilarious as fuck. And hung like a…hilarious person.” — 33. Stop acting desperate. “Stop trying to get a girlfriend. Girls don’t like when a guy is actively trying to get close to them so shy away. Strangely, they like is even less when a guy is not trying to get close to them and the start approaching you.
So speak to women that you meet like you are talking to your sister. If you can relax around her then just do the same thing. If you have never had a sister, then treat them as though they are your best friend’s sister (also out of bounds). Basically you are treating them as friends, (dare I say ‘equals’) that you can trust. Girls like that. And don’t succumb the first time that they hit on you.” — 34.
Listen while giving massages. “I’m a trained massage therapist who’s also a good listener.” — 35. Be comfortable in your own skin. “Be a good conversationalist, be fun, and be comfortable in your own skin. These attributes will help you out in most facets of your life. If you are a joy to talk with and be around, people (including women), will want to spend more time with you.
I’ve seen so many what I call ‘lopsided’ couples where one person is far more attractive than the other and it turns out that the person that married up (or dated up) is usually really cool and charismatic.
Sometimes they both are, but it is more so the less attractive one in the pair. Source: I’m not that great looking, I’d say I’m average, but I’ve got a descent sense of humor and try to be a nice and fun person. My wife married down for sure, because she is gorgeous. Fun Story: One time I was waiting for my wife to get off of work when she managed a cell phone kiosk in our local mall. There was a guy I knew leaned up against the counter talking to her. I was just standing around and listening to him and realized that he was flirting with her, when she starts dropping hints that I was her (at the time) boyfriend.
After about 10 minutes he got the hint and looked at me, then looked at her, then looked back at me and said ‘Are you…is she?”, I said yes, she’s my girlfriend. He then apologized and as he walked off kind of shook my hand like ‘way to go, man”.
I don’t know if he said that because she looks like she is out of my league or what, but that’s how I took it. Lol.” — 36. Be passionate about something. Also, be tall. “While I’m not exactly ugly, I wouldn’t consider myself good looking either. I’m 32 and have had bad skin/scaring acne for about 20 years and I have an almost comically huge nose yet I’ve always managed to out kick the coverage when it comes to dating good looking women. I think I knew very early that my looks alone were never going to get me anywhere with the ladies so I better start compensating in other areas.
I taught myself how to cook, work on engines, play guitar (which has actually worked against me on occasion) work out etc. I just tried to become a well read and intelligent interesting person until I was confident that ladies would WANT to get to know someone like me.
It also helps to have a passion for something. I don’t know why that is sexy to women, but more than one has stated that as being a major reason for getting intimate with me.
Seriously though, upping your game in the kitchen is probably the best advice I could give to a young man. Learn how to cook. Watch some Gordon Ramsey videos on some basic things you need to know and start learning.
I had a little leg up when it comes to this. I’d always be in the kitchen with my Italian grandma cooking when I was a kid. She always said you shouldn’t ever have worry about finding a decent woman just to get a decent meal. Also, I used to watch the Food Network in high school like some kids would watch MTV. Having a beautiful lady over on your second date to cook her a meal is almost always a home run.
You’re on your turf so hopefully no more first/second date jitters for you. Go find some old episodes of Molto Mario and do what he did. Be entertaining while you make her a meal and she’ll love it. Get her to help even. It’s always worked for me. Hell, one time I met a girl at a bar and got to talking about mayonnaise and how homemade was so much better than store bought.
She didn’t believe I could make mayo. I brought her to my place, made her mayo and that was it. Sexy times were imminent. Up your game in the kitchen. Also, be tall. I’m 6’2 and for some reason that does it for some women.” — 37. Be funny and charismatic in social situations. “Serious answer: Personality aside, I’m probably like a 4/10.
I have like 0 chin/jaw, and my hair is thinning pretty bad. There are a couple of key components for me. The big one is that funny and charismatic in social situations. People look to me to keep conversation light and entertaining, even if we’ve never talked before. The second one is that I’m a singer/actor. It’s not so much that I do that specifically, but it shows that I’m passionate about something and active about pursuing it. Most girls don’t care what it is you do, as long as you’re passionate and excited about it.
The third and final thing is to be attentive and caring on the first date (assuming you’re already getting that far). She wants to know that you’re a good listener, and empathetic.” — 38. Learn how to make good cocktails and an amazing sandwich. “Learn some skills and have some interests (plus grooming).” If you think of yourself as an ugly loser with nothing to offer, it won’t come across very well.
If you are someone who knows how to make good cocktails and an amazing sandwich and goes to concerts / the theater / other cool things, you can think that you’ll make her a cocktail and take her out on the town for a fun night—in short, have something to offer.
Something other than ugly desperation.” — 39. Just treat women like normal people. “Just treat women like normal people. Don’t neg them and don’t put them up on some weird creepy pedestal.
Just ask normal questions and have normal conversations. Might sound crazy but women aren’t as shallow as you think, or as they are perceived to be, talk to them and 99% of the time they talk back. When I was younger me and my friends all fancied this girl, I was the fat one of the group and didn’t think I stood a chance so when we spoke I wasn’t trying to impress her I just had a normal conversation. 15 years later we are still together have owned a house together for ten years and have an eight-year daughter.” Source: big fat bald fucker who’s just a postman with a smoking hot mixed race (I say that as don’t think a woman will judge you on race) girlfriend of 15 years who used to model (actual model as in get paid not pay to model).” — 40.
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